Why I Changed My Mind to Have a Baby

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  • When did you become a part of Mai Fam?

    Hello Hunnay with Jeannie MaiHello Hunnay with Jeannie MaiAylar önce
    • Hello Hunnay, all I want to say is am happy to see you becoming a mother soon. Love you and May Almighty bless you and the little one.

      Leila HassanLeila Hassan9 gün önce
    • From how do I look ❣️❤️💋

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    • Watchin the wheelllll.

      Kimberly FieldsKimberly Fields19 gün önce
    • Today 😍

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    • Months ago

      Sindy PetronellaSindy Petronella26 gün önce
  • Beautiful with a beautiful heart & family ❤️

    Christina GeldiChristina Geldi8 saatler önce
  • Am a new subscriber here. Happy to share this amazing journey with you Jeannie

  • We love you Jeannie!! I’m so happy for you and Jeezy. You have a beautiful spirit and you’re already a great mom!

    Ashley WhiteAshley WhiteGün önce
  • When she said..and then God reminds you who is in charge👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    mYsideofliFemYsideofliFeGün önce
  • i have learned that nothing will happen without God's plan. I am decibel I can't walk or talk but I understand everything and I am nomad in my mind and I have a computer that works with my eyes. But I am nomad in my mind.

    lydia mesfinlydia mesfinGün önce
  • I love you Jeannie but i think you overthink things alot .Just live your life and enjoy being pregnant and embrace every moment . Everything of the best to you and your husband and baby ❤

    Heather BrownHeather Brown2 gün önce
  • you deserve iam happy for you ..........so much of you said is me ..... now i can grasp why i act in this way ..thanks jeannie from iran

    ************2 gün önce
  • Thank you for sharing. I'm so encouraged this so how I feel but I'm healing and hopeful. God's will be done. God you and your family.

    S. H.S. H.3 gün önce
  • I'm turning 30 next year and I'm terrified of having children for this very reason. Mentally I'm not there even if i was financially stable i just made a promise to myself that it's not gonna be with just anyone.💔🤞😭i hate the when are you having a baby questions so much. Thank you for posting this video. So many things are starting to make sense. Love and Light💕🕯🇿🇦

    khanyisile nadiahkhanyisile nadiah3 gün önce
  • U changed your mind to have a baby because You wanted a baby by a BLACK MAN. You see what u get when mix black with another culture and YOU WANTED that .

    Niecy Sincere JonesNiecy Sincere Jones4 gün önce
  • 2007

    Tonya TaylorTonya Taylor4 gün önce
  • Jeezy ain't gonna stay with the fake swagger pre single mom alert

    Corey 1timeCorey 1time4 gün önce
  • I love you dear 💕. Always gorgeous and stunning. Am inspired to listen to your stories 😊. Enjoy life and forgive them.

    Team Sheila Blessings.Team Sheila Blessings.4 gün önce
  • It was just not the right person or right time. This is the right person and time. Congrats!

    v yv y5 gün önce
  • Needed to watch this, I can relate to the anxiety too. I am a first time mother to be and I think so much about what could happen especially cause I’ve got Lupus but knowing that I’ve got God on my side reassures me too. Thank you for sharing and in your sharing comforting me.

    Nompumelelo SimangoNompumelelo Simango5 gün önce
  • You didn’t even need to explain this to us, and any reasonable person would understand you. We are allowed to change our minds. And tbh a lot of the times we don’t understand our reasoning until we’re OUT of the situation. My case isn’t like having a baby, but I went from not wanting to move into a home with my ex fiancé of 7 years because I didn’t feel safe, assured and mentally stable with him (I suffered abuse also and watched my mother go through abuse) vs moving into a home with my current partner when we were

    Vee BeeVee Bee5 gün önce
  • Beautiful realm testimony Amen

    Elaine TillmanElaine Tillman5 gün önce
  • Nobody really cares at this point Jeanie because only you know the real truth about why you changed your mind. You act like you have to prove to the world about that. Just be truthful with yourself and with your fans because folk can tell when you’re not being truthful.

    G JG J6 gün önce
  • I'm so happy for you. You deserve to pour all of your goodness into someone that you have created. I'm so happy YOU DECIDED to change your mind. Once your NEW CAR gets here your life will all make sense. Your purpose will change in an instance. Congratulations Momma welcome to the best club in the 🌎.

    GenuineNaturalDivaGenuineNaturalDiva7 gün önce
  • its about time CONGRATS

    TEA PEATEA PEA7 gün önce
  • Hi Jeannie I was thinking how about the name( generous) but with a J In stead of. G.. Just a thought also (jewelry) is different as well and maybe.( Jari) or suggestion ..

    Lachinda SmithLachinda Smith8 gün önce
  • ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    Mandy GMandy G8 gün önce
  • I will probably never meet you Jeannie but I want you to know I see you and support you and Jeezy, God has y’all ❤️

    Ruby McClainRuby McClain8 gün önce
  • Jeannie, I want you to know that you are a child of a King. That king is Jesus Christ. Please claim this verse. You are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people that you should show forth the praises of him who brought you out of darkness into his marvelous light. 1 Peter 2 : 9

    janet buckleyjanet buckley8 gün önce
  • Jezzy hit the right NERVE !!! that's why she changed her mind ,

    Lisa AugustinLisa Augustin8 gün önce
  • Can’t wait to get to where you are. So happy for you Jeannie ❤️

    Bibled GoogledBibled Googled9 gün önce
  • I just started watching your channel and I just want to say your soul is beautiful and I wish you continuous healing ❤️‍🩹 I’m so happy you are doing better and that your baby is going to be loved and taken care of. Blessings to you and your family

    Laura GarciaLaura Garcia9 gün önce
  • Jesus is always present for us to comfort us..put all your worries on him he will deliver all your fears...learn to truly pray sis..

    nothando magagulanothando magagula9 gün önce
  • I loveeee this for her!!! Wishing you a happy & safe pregnancy Luv💕

    Jessica DorothyJessica Dorothy9 gün önce
  • I love you soo much !! Ughh

    Sillies StoneSillies Stone9 gün önce
  • Beautiful! As women we are allowed to have the choice of whether we want to have children or not. We are also allowed to change our minds in our own lives. I'm wishing you and Jeezy th best. God bless !

    Mia CarterMia Carter9 gün önce
  • I’ve had a similar experience. Was in an unhealthy relationship and never wanted a family. Found the man of my dreams and now I’m pregnant! The story of you dreaming and being awoken by your baby kicking is so moving. Good luck Jeanie. Live happy, free and fulfilled!

    Yasmeens BeautyYasmeens Beauty9 gün önce
  • That line killed me.... we all have plans, but God reminds you who is IN CHARGE 🙏🏼 please Jeannie leave the fear to the Almighty. Afterall he is In charge and will provide safety to you & your loved ones. He changed your whole life by giving you a beautiful gift, that is a positive sign you can take care of yourself and many little ones. You are in a level of great self control and will enjoy the fruit. Life begins at 40 that what it’s said. Enjoy every little single moment. Love you 😘

    Leila HassanLeila Hassan9 gün önce
  • I am soo happy that you are expanding your family in a safe space. Wishing you a happy pregnancy and delivery 💖

    Lola OduguwaLola Oduguwa10 gün önce
  • I also have trauma as a child very similar to yours. I met my fiancé almost 5 years ago I was in a pretty bad place. He showed me selfless love, patience, and makes me feel safe, made me feel safe and was so selfless. We just got married Oct 30th funny thing is I never imagined I would get married but I had an amazing time. We found out in September we are expecting out first child and are so excited! I also did not want to have kids scared I would not be able to protect them from the world due to my trauma. He helped me get the confidence to make it through school (graduated making deans list every semester)and join the gym for my anxiety. I tell him everyday I never knew I could be this happy and it just keeps getting better and better. Watching you helps me open up to my husband. I love your videos thank you for sharing! ♥️

    The time is nowThe time is now10 gün önce
  • happy 4 u

    gabigabi10 gün önce
  • Conscience. and Free will are God given gifts....the ability to CHANGE OUR MINDS...is a exercise OF BOTH of them. Jeezy is a safe love...Freddie WAS NOT. Your baby will be loved beyond words❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    Lin BonnLin Bonn10 gün önce
  • I just hope in all honesty that what I, WE, see here in social media, that Ms Jeanie and jeezy are honest to God happy and I pray they make it. It seems Jeanie has been thru the MOST, and I can't even imagine... So I just really hope her new baby will be born just as gorgeous as her and jeezy, and they live happily ever after. I wish I can hug her cuz I swear I can feel her struggling and her pain. I feel I am a lot like this beautiful human being. Going through just real life situations, buttttttt we some strong powerful ass women and we just gonna keep pushing baby. Enjoy your life, enjoy your husband, enjoy your beautiful baby. Just be happy mamas cuz Lord knows YOU MOST DEFINITELY DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.... GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND NEW FAMILY 😘🥰🙏❤️

    R3DQ22R3DQ2210 gün önce
  • I think it's important note that some women don't want kids regardless of the man and that's ok. There's nothing more patronising than someone telling you, you will change your mind

    Beth FeBeth Fe10 gün önce
  • Eventhough I still don't want a kid of my own. I'm always happy for those who choose to have them. Congratulations J and J!

    Pamela HoughPamela Hough10 gün önce
  • Don't, once you become a mother, mama bear would instantly comes out and you would guide and protect your child likes a lion

    mayonaiisedmayonaiised10 gün önce
  • Hi Jeannie, Sarai from San Jose! 408!!!! Jeannie, I will give you the same advice my mother gave me in regards to your anxiety of your child's safety: "Never forget that your baby, your son/daughter trusts YOU and trusts that you will protect him/her. Afterall, that's what a mother should do. Your kid will always be safe when is with YOU! No one else! There is no one else better than you, no one is better that mommy, to protect your child." I mean, come on, this is so true, you are the one that is carrying this baby, you are the one carrying life inside you, you are the one feeling those kicks, he/she is so close to you that can hear your heartbeat, the sound of your voice, can hear when you cry, feel what you feel, of course you are going to protect your little one from ANYONE!!!"PROTECT YOUR CHILD WITH TEETH AND CLAWS" as my mother would say, now is the time to forget "oh is a friend, of but is a family, my brother, my uncle etc." when it comes to your child's safety your kid comes first. Some people might get offended and tell you the same old song " you are being overprotected" nah ah, think whatever you want but I will protect my little one. I see wolves averywhere, Jeannie, everywhere, ready to come after the innocent! As you will learn being a mother, you will find that people get offended when you take precautions to protect your child from any abuse, my question why? Because like I told you wolves want easy preys, without the protetion of the mother bc it is easier. Get offended well bye bye, then it was meant to be. Your kid always with YOU! Now, I know you work hard, you have a career, make sure that whoever is going to take care of your child while you are working is someone you really trust, that has met your expectations, always, always, ALWAYS trust your mother instinct, your will never be wrong. God gave you this maternal instinct for this same reason. Do whatever you can to protect your child from suffering the same things you went through, if that is your goal, work hard for it and I know you will succeed. Do what you have to do as a mother and where you find yourself you have no control of, that where God will take care of. Sorry for the long comment but I felt the need to tell you this bc it is subject I really take serious and must give you this crucial advice. I hate to see kids harm, abused. Pray, pray that He will give you wisdom, pray for your baby now and after and trust in God! Bless you and your family1

    Princesa de DiosPrincesa de Dios10 gün önce
  • Thank you for openly sharing your journey Jeannie! Your words truly resonate. Truly happy for your inner glow up because the ❤️ you have now, both internally and externally, really shines. Congratulations to you and Jeezy for finding each other...it takes courage to find your equal 💕!!!

    Samantha ClyneSamantha Clyne10 gün önce
  • Coulda changed your mind before you did all that to Freddie

    Rachel HopeRachel Hope10 gün önce
  • You are gonna be the best mum in the whole world. Don't worry about failing just enjoy every moment

  • Once the baby comes out a mother intuition kicks in you're going to automatically know what to do

  • Don't listen 2 wat other ppl have 2 say.........as long as u and ur husband r happy 2 hell with d haters. 🇬🇩🇬🇩💝💝🇬🇩🇬🇩

    Ezra A PetersEzra A Peters12 gün önce
  • This is such a wholesome video! You are so in touch with your feelings. I love that. Please continue to be who you are. We're all cheering for you and your new journey!

    Maylou MouaMaylou Moua12 gün önce
  • I am so happy for you 💗its when God want it. He bless you with a good husband and now a baby. Good for y love y🙏🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇

    Auria FelixAuria Felix12 gün önce
  • First and foremost you look more beautiful pregnant!. As of today I am a subscriber and I hit the bell 🔔

    Adrian WalkerAdrian Walker13 gün önce
  • Oh look, Jeezy's latest baby mama. Trash, tbh.🗑🗑🗑🗑

    ChunkslothChunksloth13 gün önce
  • Thank you for being so honest Jeannie! I really appreciated hearing from your story

    AzariaAzaria13 gün önce
  • I swear I was just thinking to myself she always said she didn't want kids

    brownskingirl❤brownskingirl❤13 gün önce
  • She met a real alpha man of course she changed her mind.

    Triggered Triggered 13 gün önce
  • Thank you for sharing your story. What a journey you're on and I'm so happy for you-finding love and safety and learning to trust yourself. You have the foundation to be a wonderful mother and have a beautiful and healthy family.

    Kerri Estella GrinnageKerri Estella Grinnage13 gün önce
  • I'm surprised she decided to have a baby considering she's not attracted to black men.....she married a black man and then decided to have a child. That's just strange. Lol

    Tiffany LandryTiffany Landry13 gün önce
  • This was beautiful ❤️

    Kwetse PhetlaKwetse Phetla13 gün önce
  • Words are power speak positively over your abilities to be a good mom. PSA announcement no parent gets it 100 percent correct all the time. But we try our best. You sound like you will be a great mom. I can relate to what you said without going into anything. They say what you fear most will happen on some small level so speak over yourself and your baby. This time around it seems like you met a person that loves and appreciate you. And maybe that was the key. If all mothers waited until they were emotionally ready to have babies this world would be a different place. So happy for your growth. Blessings.

    Adrian WilliamsAdrian Williams13 gün önce
  • So proud of you Jeannie Mai 🥰♥️♥️ I went through a very similar situation as a child with my mom and experienced many of the same feelings as an adult, but glory to God. There is healing in release. So happy for you 🙏🏽

    Mariah’s WorldMariah’s World14 gün önce
  • You're going to be an amazing and wonderful mom!❤❤

    TaniaTania14 gün önce
  • Hopefully she is ready to be a single mom. I understand the entire “feeling safe with Jeezy” etc etc however you need to be able to view your child and yourself ALONE etc. Don’t base having a child solely on the person you are with etc. Marriage doesn’t always last and I’m sorry don’t trust Jeezy. She deserves better.

    The HelmThe Helm14 gün önce
  • My husband came from a broken home and a very tough upbringing. He swore up and down he never wanted to get married nor have any kids. Here we are today married with 3 kids and he’s talking about us maybe having a fourth child. It takes that right kind of love and happiness and it can change your whole world. God brings people in and out of your life for a reason! This episode of yours really hit home for me because In some ways it reminds me of my husband.

    Aaabbb CcccAaabbb Cccc14 gün önce
    • @Beth Fe what does that have to do with anything i just said?

      Aaabbb CcccAaabbb Cccc7 gün önce
    • Some women don't want kids full stop and it's very patronising when people tell them they will change their mind

      Beth FeBeth Fe10 gün önce
  • You made me cry cause I went through abuse as well, at 38 I still fear to have girls especially cause of what I went through n still single never be truly been Inlove or loved that much yet n I cried when you cry from the times that you were bullied n you kept quiet n blamed yourself for not speaking up, I was like that n am still am in some ways, my self esteem has been low since the abuse n I always wanted to please people I guess that came from thinking when I please them they will love me n not hurt me, but we know it's not always the case, but thank God am learning to love myself more now n protect myself from toxic people. THANK YOU n CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MARRIAGE N BABY 🥰

    Brenda MhlarhiBrenda Mhlarhi14 gün önce
  • Name the baby Juniper

    Brittany TBrittany T14 gün önce
  • I’m so proud of you Jeannie. You will be a amazing mom! Congrats to you and Jeezy on your new bundle of joy ❤️ lots of love xo

    NinjakittycatNinjakittycat14 gün önce
  • I hope a man who’s a baby daddy to other women don’t disappoint her .

    Judy JonesJudy Jones14 gün önce
  • Jeannie, you so wonderful and in spite of your horrific experiences that should have never happened, you have still become such a wise, strong, loving, resilient person. Thank you for sharing this even though you didn't have too. You are wonderfully and beautifully made by God. He is with you and he will guide you as you continue in this journey. Put Him first and trust Him. Parenthood is a journey and it is bravery. Even the best of parents will mess up. It shows us that we are not in control. But there is someone who sits on the throne and has the final say. You can trust in Jesus for you, your family, and especially your child. Jesus cares for us all more than we can ever imagine. Unfortunately because we live in this fallen world, people can work with Satan to commit evil acts. But what the enemy Satan meant for evil God turns everything for His good. Your family will be in my prayers.

    nigeriansistanigeriansista14 gün önce
  • I say this with all my heart! YOU GOT THIS!! Peace, love and blessings to you and that beautiful baby!! Keep shinning J!

    GlamHer Lash Studio and AcademyGlamHer Lash Studio and Academy14 gün önce
  • JEANNIE I CANNOT THIBK OF A MORE DESERVING WOMAN! You deserve to delight in this new baby in all the good and fun ways that mother hood is!! I am so happy for you!! You’re going to be such a great Mom!! Baby Mai is so so so loved and so so so prayed over!!!

    Bekah ReidsmaBekah Reidsma14 gün önce
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